{"id":844,"date":"2016-09-22T11:02:42","date_gmt":"2016-09-22T17:02:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sites.msudenver.edu\/sips\/?p=844"},"modified":"2019-09-10T18:17:50","modified_gmt":"2019-09-11T00:17:50","slug":"sip-4-4-managing-feelings-of-frustration-toward-students","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.msudenver.edu\/sips\/sip-4-4-managing-feelings-of-frustration-toward-students\/","title":{"rendered":"SIP 4.4 Managing Feelings of Frustration Toward Students"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><b>Thirsty for a Strong Instructional Practice?<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Have you ever heard something like,<span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/curitibainenglish.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/frustrated-teacher.jpg\" alt=\"Professor frustrated with students. &quot;Help&quot; on chaulkboard behind him\" width=\"325\" height=\"215\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cWhat degrees do you have?\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cI am an A student and I don\u2019t agree with this grade.\u201d <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cActually, I recently read ____ and it said \u2026.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Comments like these can result in feelings of frustration for professors. Those feelings can become barriers to productive teaching and learning, undermine job satisfaction, and sap energy and enthusiasm for teaching.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3><b>Take a SIP of This: <\/b><b>Managing Feelings of Frustration Toward Students<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It is normal to periodically feel frustration with others, including our students. Frustration with students can make us feel bad about ourselves as if our frustration indicates a character flaw or makes us bad professors, neither of which is true.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When we get frustrated we can also blame the students. When we blame students for our feelings, we relinquish control of a significant part of our well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">There are two steps we can take to manage \u00a0our frustration productively. First, we need to regain control of our feelings. Second, it is important to address the student\u2019s actions or interactions as a \u201cteachable moment.\u201d Look for part two of this SIP titled \u201cProductive Interactions with Frustrating Students\u201d next week.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b><i>Tips for managing frustration toward students<\/i><\/b><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Remember the dumb things you said or did when you were a student. With few exceptions, none of us was a perfect student. Did you have a teacher or professor who was forgiving at those times? Ask yourself, \u201cWhat would _____ do in this situation?\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When a student gets under your skin in the middle of class, give the class something they can do independently and leave the classroom. Take a short walk and cool down. Make a plan for addressing the problem. Don\u2019t re-enter the classroom until you are sure that your emotions are under control. No student is worth doing something that will endanger your job or tenure.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Don\u2019t take it personally. Every student who enters our class has a different interest in the topic, different preferences for instructional styles, and different sleep and wake cycles, among other things. MSU Denver students \u00a0are managing work, family, school, and often other responsibilities. Some come to class after having worked a night shift and are tired or hungry. Others might have a job in which they interact with unhappy people and then come to class and pass along their frustration to their classmates or professors. None of these things has to do with us.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Consider why you might feel frustrated with the student. Do you feel as though your expertise is being challenged? Do you see parts of yourself that you don\u2019t like in the student?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Cultural or language issues might play a part in communication breakdowns. What can be an appropriate way to act or interact in one culture might be very different in another resulting in misperceptions of the intention of behavior and communication. While we might assume that students are intentionally being disrespectful, a disposition that sounds or appears antagonistic might be entirely unintentional. They may or may not realize that their tone sounds offensive or that their actions are rude. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Be honest about your own bias. Everyone is biased, it is part of being human. The best we can do is to be aware of our bias and consider how that might play into the way we feel about our students. Our own bias might, unintentionally, feel as though we are antagonistic to the student, who is then mirroring our attitudes back to us. Taking <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/implicit.harvard.edu\/implicit\/index.jsp\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Harvard University\u2019s bias awareness test<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> can help us think about our own bias.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Avoid generalizing frustration for one student to a whole class. Be clear with yourself who frustrates you and why.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Although we might be able to develop understanding and empathy for the students who frustrate us, it is still not acceptable for anyone to be disrespectful to another, particularly in a learning environment. Look for part two of this SIP titled \u201cProductive Interactions with Frustrating Students\u201d next week.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Still Thirsty? Take Another SIP of <\/b><b>Managing Feelings of Frustration Toward Students<\/b><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Join us for the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.msudenver.edu\/fys\/fysactivities\/equity-mindedpedagogyseries\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Equity-Minded Pedagogy Series<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> hosted by MSU Denver\u2019s First Year Success Program. Implicit bias is the topic of session one on September 23rd at 10am.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"https:\/\/implicit.harvard.edu\/implicit\/index.jsp\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Harvard University\u2019s bias awareness test<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> includes self-administered tests that measure bias related to a variety of characteristics of others including race, gender, weight, and disability, among others. There is also a menu of tests that measure implicit biases that we have about ourselves regarding mental health.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Vanderbilt University\u2019s Center for Teaching: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/cft.vanderbilt.edu\/guides-sub-pages\/diversity\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Diversity and Inclusive Teaching<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> highlights a number of issues related to communication and behavior of students who do not share the instructor\u2019s culture, language, or nationality.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thirsty for a Strong Instructional Practice? Have you ever heard something like, \u201cWhat degrees do you have?\u201d \u201cI am an A student and I don\u2019t agree with this grade.\u201d \u201cActually, I recently read ____ and it said \u2026.\u201d Comments like these can result in feelings of frustration for professors. 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